sourdick ([info]sourdick) wrote,
@ 2009-02-10 08:31:00
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I consider myself a rational erudite
I’ve been paged in the middle of the night 4 times in three days. Twice last night alone, once at 11PM; and another at 3:50AM, I’m racked.

Completely unrelated, I have a good friend who hasn’t had a girlfriend in a while. Hes in his early 20s, and has been talking to his best friends sister on IM for a few weeks. She’s just turned 15. He hasn’t said anything to me, but its clear they are getting along. When the ‘older brother’ told me his sister was feeling sick and would probably take the day off school, on the same day no-girlfriend-guy has no classes, flags were raised.

How can I broach the subject with this guy without asking outright? Why are people so dumb? If you’re going to have sex with a teenager, do it with a 19 year old like a normal person does.

I saw Polytechnique (in English) on Saturday night at the Pepsi AMC Forum, it was my first time there, and its nice, and the parking was pretty cheap too.

Set in Montreal, Quebec and based on the École Polytechnique Massacre (also known as the Montreal Massacre), the film documents the events of December 6, 1989 through the eyes of two students who witness a gunman murder fourteen young women before committing suicide.
The film is absolutely brutal in its depiction of one of the worst school shootings in modern times, and the absolute insanity of a man blaming woman for all of his personal problems in life to the point where he causes this kind of terror. I strongly urge all Montrealers to go see this movie.

I cried (twice).


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[info]sidd2600
2009-02-10 02:49 pm UTC (link)
Ask him if he likes High School Musical. If he says yes, pedo.

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[info]evilegg
2009-02-10 03:02 pm UTC (link)
Don't let your friend fuck up his life for some young poon.
I'd totally call his ass out.

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[info]john_savoia
2009-02-10 04:10 pm UTC (link)
why you got messed up people around you a lot?

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[info]sourdick
2009-02-10 05:47 pm UTC (link)
this POWER JERRY, ....IM DANGEROUS IM VERY VERY DANGEROUSSS

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[info]john_savoia
2009-02-10 05:57 pm UTC (link)
very nice i like

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[info]suitablyemoname
2009-02-10 04:27 pm UTC (link)
There's no way to ask someone if they intend to fuck a 15-year-old without asking if they intend to fuck a 15-year-old.

If you feel like you have to do something, have a talk with the older brother. ("Look, I have a friend who is getting along really well with your little sister, and I'm starting to get uncomfortable with what I'm hearing. I'm not sure whether or not things are on the level, but if they aren't...")

He's in a much better position to tell whether or not something's going to happen, and intervention on his part is more likely to resolve the situation.

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[info]catalyster
2009-02-10 07:45 pm UTC (link)
I agree... call him out on it and tell him to grow the fuck up. You already have the experience from the guy at work to help you out...

Dose he really think it's a good idea? I don't believe there can be any kind of meaninful relationship between a 15 year old and a 20 year old. 15 is fucking young. I have a difficult enough time dealing with 18/19 year olds - they're so fucking stupid and immature, I can't even begin to imagine what a 15 year old would be like.

Tell him to grow up and find someone his own age who he can actually have a relationship with - instead of just a fuck buddy.

The only end to this is a very very bad one. Maybe ask him honestly what he thinks a relationship with a 15 year old will come to?

Is she even in High School? Does he wanna go to her prom? does he wanna meet her parents? How emotionally damanged will she be when he realises he needs to dump her because there's very little common ground? Will she freak out? Will her parents become upset that some 20 year old hurt their little princess' emotions? Does he really wanna wait around for 4 years while she completes he bachelors? I'm sure I don't need to tell you all this, you can figure it out for yourself. But it's just bad all around.



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[info]sourdick
2009-02-11 01:07 am UTC (link)
I think I like this advice the best so far... :\

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[info]wendykh
2009-02-10 09:26 pm UTC (link)
are they in Canada? He may not realize that is illegal here now. It's fairly recent the age of consent was raised and most people are pretty sure it's still 14 across the board. You may just need to remind him of that.

When the husband was 20 he had a 15 year old girlfriend... they were something like 4 yrs and 362 days apart... any way they dated for three years and she was pretty mature and he was pretty immature (and luckily a generally decent guy) so it worked out. But he was also pathologically shy and had no self esteem. Her parents were very laid back and it wasn't near the drama it could have been. The two biggest problems he reports were miserable sex (you just don't feel comfortable asking a 15 year old to do certain things yk?) and that while she was mature, HER friends were typical children and so they did little socializing in groups.

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[info]sourdick
2009-02-11 01:08 am UTC (link)
I think I might use some of this too. Thanks Wen.. The self-esteem thing might be a big part of it that I hadnt realized. Its going to be pretty brutal if I bring it to the table though. Tears seem to follow me around wherever I go lately.

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[info]kappsgurl
2009-02-10 09:51 pm UTC (link)
Does she look like Alec Baldwin's 13 year old daughter?



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[info]sourdick
2009-02-11 01:06 am UTC (link)
Not at ALL

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[info]garinjwind
2009-02-17 12:39 am UTC (link)
She can't be thirteen.

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[info]kappsgurl
2009-02-17 12:41 am UTC (link)
She TOTALLY is.

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[info]juanoclock
2009-02-10 11:43 pm UTC (link)
Well, it seemed to turn out all right for Woody Allen.

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[info]stylistixs
2009-02-11 03:02 am UTC (link)
the 10 year old on the swing set is a nice touch.

i have absolutely no advice to give on this subject. my first reaction would have been "dude, perv."

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